How Gay Sex Has Changed

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i used to go drinking in bars

used to go cruising in parks

but nowadays i can sit home alone

and ‘cruise for love’ on a mobile phone

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I used to watch men wanking in cottages

now i sit him home and watch them wanking online

i used to enjoy fucking bareback

with other positive brothers on meds

but now that everyone wants it raw

i’d rather use a condom instead

too many diseases are too widespread

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i used to enjoy a chem sacrament

to deepen the sex-love-spirit connection

but for some reason now guys take drugs

that destroy all chance of them getting an erection

they take the drug then seek the sex

sitting home alone on their mobile phones….

but finding a lover then taking the trip…

is what really gets us in the zone.

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London sometimes seems to be becoming

a city of hungry arses

of men chasing after something or nothing

of men taking without leaving deposits

Soft Cell sang it 1983…

“out in the city, out in the street

isn’t it pretty, isn’t it sweet

a man could get lost… a man could get lost’

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the gay boys all rush to the city

the gay boys so easily get lost

i talk to guys who have done every sex act, every drug

been adored and explored

been raped and used, been desperate to be abused

but they’ve never wandered and met a man in the trees

they’ve never fucked just on beautiful weed

they’ve dived in the deep end

found excess, been high and of course depressed

and can’t see the way out of the viper’s nest

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it used to be you had to work quite hard to be a slut

risk attack or arrest in parks and toilets

even the saunas got raided

sex is plentiful in the internet age

masc seeking masc is all the rage

the chains are breaking on the homosexual cage

but there’s more to discover about our sexuality

as we enter the Aquarian Age

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these days we meet to play, we don’t mention love

but guys

what we really need is friends

the chance to make amends

and find some innocence again

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if we let our play be divine

we bring our souls online

through love for each brother

we can liberate one another

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sex can open the gates to heaven

the multi-dimensional Self

that’s what gay sex is actually for

in the grand scheme of creation

it’s what we were honoured for

in pagan Europe and around the world

it’s why the religions of the Father forbade our passion

and it’s why gay sex is now soooo much in fashion

for the old ways are rising again

the Aquarian light of liberation is going to shine through

some will fear annihilation

and some will see

there’s an acceleration of frequency

that is not just affecting the climate

the collective human soul is bursting to give birth

to light filled rainbow consciousness

where all are seen for their worth

and the magic ones return….

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gays are gatekeepers, witches, shamans and fools

time to reunite sodomy and sorcery

time to redefine ourselves

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we need to find our sanctuaries, our groves and our tribes

so that the healing of our planet home can begin

and the healing of the human soul, in which our sexuality plays a crucial, sacred role.

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2 responses

  1. I don’t find the Internet useful for securing quality sex: Too much subterfuge, feint, misdirection and planned catchment. The Internet as tool of sexual procurement in my experience, focuses on the visual sense. All the Internet and phone hookup applications primarily focus on the visual sense. The visual is important in sexuality, but only so far and in reality to a limited degree. Sex in the human experience is principally and fundamentally a kinaesthetic, tactile, skin or touch-related act of some sort. Other senses augment the visual sense and all senses may be sexually fetishized and erotic. I loved the hunt, wind on my face, surrounded by nature and the sounds and smells of my environment and the heightened awareness that results. I loved the seduction, the sacred-grove-pleasure of outdoor park and beach beats, of secluded places. I once upon a time loved dancing in nightclubs and outdoors in raves and passionately picking up and being intimately engaged in movement on their dancefloors. I have always valued drug-as-sacrament and as an intentional and experiential sacred journey of mystical consciousness. I am principally kinaesthetic and sound oriented. Movement and sound is really erotic and seductive for me. I was successful in the saunas for the same reasons. My experience of friendship and love has been in short supply but I learnt how to compete and win at disposable sexuality and I got trapped within that context. I feel like I have wasted my life.

  2. I didn’t waste my life on further assessment. When I wasn’t partnered, I just responded to the heterosexual culture of repression and bigotry and the sexual context of propriety of the time and place within which I was inset. I would have preferred an enduring lover and lifemate but emotionally honest and loving humans capable of love, loving and intimacy as well as being sexually adept and sexually capable were and are still a rarity and in short supply. Few human relationships maintain sexual relationships that satisfy for any enduring time. Many couples appear together but they do not maintain a sexual relationship of any import for any significant time. It is part of the human condition.

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